Journal
Notes on love, dating, and the real thing.
Writing from our matchmakers and editorial team — what we've learned across fifteen years of helping members find each other.
Writing a Profile That Attracts the Right People — and Repels the Wrong Ones
Most profiles try to please everyone, so they end up sounding like everyone. Here's how to write yours so the right kind of person leans in — and the wrong ones move on.
Read moreDating After Divorce — Without Shrinking Yourself
Coming back to dating after a long marriage isn't starting over. It's starting from a place of more clarity than you've ever had. Here's how to honor that.
Read moreBeing Married — The Quiet Discipline of a Good Relationship
Falling in love is easy. Staying in love takes a few small habits, repeated for decades. Here's the short list we hear from our members who've made it the longest.
Read moreWhy In-Person Events Are Coming Back — and Working
After a decade of swiping, members are flocking back to mixers, dinners, and curated events. Here's what makes the in-person version actually work.
Read moreWhat Our Matchmakers Actually Do (And Why It Works)
A behind-the-scenes look at the work that happens between your application and your first introduction — and why it produces more lasting matches than any algorithm.
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