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About The Love Vault

16+ years of intentional matchmaking.

We started The Love Vault because the people we knew deserved better than the apps. They were accomplished, beautiful, kind — and exhausted. So we built the kind of dating club we wanted to join: small, private, and obsessed with real chemistry.

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A note from our founder

“We've been helping couples meet since 2010. The model hasn't changed because, frankly, it works: real people, real conversations, and a matchmaker who actually pays attention to what you said you wanted.”

Most of our members come to us after years of trying everything else. Some are recently divorced; some are widowed; many are career-driven adults who simply ran out of time to do the dating-app math. Whatever brought them in, what we promise is the same: we will pay close attention to who you are, and we will introduce you only to people who match.

We don't get every match right. But we get the kind of matches right that lead to dinner reservations, then weekend trips, then weddings. That's why we do this work — and that's why most of our growth still comes from member referrals.

What we believe.

Quality over quantity

A small membership well-served beats a vast pool poorly matched. We grow our roster carefully and on purpose.

Privacy is non-negotiable

Your photos, story, and information are sacred. They never leave the team without your explicit permission.

Chemistry can't be algorithmed

Algorithms tell you who's compatible on paper. People tell you who's compatible in person. We use both — but we trust people more.

Time is the rarest resource

Your weekends shouldn't be spent on bad first dates. Our process respects your calendar as much as your heart.

15+
Years matchmaking
Coast-to-coast
Member network
<48hr
Application response
100%
Confidentially handled

Meet the team

The people behind every match.

A small, hand-picked group of matchmakers and concierges. Most have been with the Vault for years — some since the beginning.

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Founder

Founder & CEO

Started the Vault in 2010 after years of watching friends struggle with apps. Personally interviews every member before joining.

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Head Matchmaker

Head Matchmaker

Fifteen years pairing accomplished adults across coastal cities. Specializes in members balancing demanding careers with intentional partnership.

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Senior Matchmaker

Senior Matchmaker

Trained under our founder. Known for matching clients in second and third chapters — divorced, widowed, or returning to dating after a long break.

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Date Concierge

Date Concierge

Plans every VIP date — from restaurant reservations to surprise weekends. Spent a decade in luxury hospitality before joining the Vault.

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Member Operations

Member Care

The first voice every applicant hears. Manages confidential intake, reviews applications, and protects every member's privacy.

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Events & Mixers

Events Director

Curates every private dinner, retreat, and members-only event. Background in editorial hosting and high-touch hospitality.

I'd done the apps. I'd done the setups. I told the team at the Vault that if they couldn't do better than dinner with someone who didn't read my profile, I was out. Six weeks later I met him. We're getting married next spring.
Member, NYC
Matched Spring 2025

Ready to meet your match?

Apply privately. We'll be in touch within 48 hours to set up a confidential conversation. No pressure, no commitment — just a real conversation about what you're looking for.